We all want the same basic qualities in a relationship. Respect, love, confidence, being open and growth are a few. We all want someone that makes us feel wanted and adored. Below are methods of attracting a lover that adores us.
1. Be Yourself
If you want someone to love you for who you are, you have to be able to express your true self. By portraying yourself you keep everything simple.
Life and relationships are complicated enough with out persona’s. You can’t truly grow with someone if they only experience false aspects of your personality. You demonstrate perspective and strength when you are genuine.
2. Be Honest
It takes confidence and bravery to be honest. People will take note and respect you for your ability to speak your truth.
More over, when you are honest with people, the way you present truths is important. The truth can be stated in ways that doesn’t hurt others and doesn’t make them feel worse off for the knowledge.
A great way to attract someone who will appreciate you is to show compassion in the execution of your feelings and perceptions.
3. Have A Sense Of Humor
Everyone likes to laugh, so don’t be afraid to show your humorous side. People want someone who is not only aware of their surroundings, nut comfortable enough to laugh about it.
Don’t be something your not, but show that you appreciate laughter and demonstrate your ability to make other’s laugh.
4. Practice Selflessness
The ability to re-order your priorities and remove yourself from the focal point, demonstrates not only your maturity but encourages faith in your potential.
Through faith and compassion your partner will look to the future actively and positively. If they know that you can make them the most important thing in your life they will love you in the same way.
5. Be Open-Minded
You partner will respect your ability to stay open to the possibilities. It takes confidence, competence, and awareness to be receptive.
An open mind is able to roll with the punches in life easier than a closed mind.People feel more comfortable around an open minded individual. They can open up to you with out fear of judgment.
6. Be Helpful
A productive and positive attitude makes you a highly sought after personality. Everyone needs help every so often, but it can be difficult to ask for help.
Anticipating a person’s needs and helping them them in a manner that helps them and enforces independence.
7. Practice Humility
No one wants to be around an arrogant or grandiose person, especially when that person is so close to us. You can’t open up to a person without humility.
A humble person can work in a team, and make people feel comfortable. A not humble person makes people defensive, doesn’t compromise or do any of the things mentioned in this list. Humility is key for taming the ego.